what would i say?

if you could say one thing to the person who hurt you the most, what would it be and why?

I would ask why it hurts so much to be around them?

Why does it hurt to feel happy around them now when in the past, it was so hard to feel happy around them. I'm really over it already. I even accepted that both of us we're learning, growing at different rates too the point where both of us have hurt each other.

I'm still growing older, and you are too but I wish I was wiser when I started having anxiety attacks and tell you exactly how it felt. Right now I can say, and try to explain but honestly, I have no clue how anxiety and that initial feeling of sadness felt when I was younger.

I saw a quote about forgiveness, which I don't have the exact quote but it was related to forgiving someone else's actions because they too didn't know what they were doing to hurt you.

Their actions, were not intentional.

Just trying to look at it in a positive light because I guess, being angry at another person who has no clue how to process feelings is pointless.

There's also this song that talks about anything that needs to stick in my life will stick, things unneeded will disappear on their own.

I've given up on feeling angry towards you and I hope that both of us can sit at a table and laugh, cry, and talk without feeling guilty or angry towards one another.